How to join

Joining takes a few minutes.

No swiping into the void. Sincera is for people ready for a serious, lasting, monogamous relationship, here’s what your application covers.

Why the $3?

The $3covers the cost of the identity check: you photograph a government ID and take a selfie, and Stripe matches the two. That is what keeps bots, stolen photos and fake profiles out, because it proves a real person is behind the account. It doesn’t vet the rest of your life. You must be 21or older and not currently married, and both of those are things you tell us and affirm, not things the ID check confirms. It’s a one-time fee, not a subscription. After you sign in you’ll verify your identity, pay the fee and take the assessment. No one has to sign off on it: once those three are in, your membership opens on its own. If it hasn’t opened shortly after your last step, email hello@sinceralove.com and we’ll open it by hand.

Start your application

Free to apply. You’ll pay the $3 verification fee after you sign in.

First name

Only your first name is ever shown to other members.

We’ll send a secure sign-in link here, no password.

I am a

ManWoman

Date of birth

Must be 21 or older.

City

Never shown to other members. Only the Sincera team sees it.

Marital history

Displayed openly on your profile: Sincera is built on transparency, not penalty.

Do you have children?

YesNo

I affirm that I am not currently married. Sincera is for people who are free to date; I understand my membership opens once I have paid the fee, verified my identity, and completed the assessment, and that Sincera can decline or remove an account.

By submitting, you agree to our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.

We’ll email you a secure link. Click it to finish your application and pay the one-time $3 verification fee.

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